Boys, Boys, Boys

Sometimes I just don’t understand the mindset of the boy. Is it just wired to where we will never understand the way the male mind works? I mean I understand looks are everything to a guy, but when did society beat the fun-sized girl with the “don’t date her” stick and runaway? I mean if you are a Christian boy and claim to want that pure, amazing Christian girl that is earnestly seeking after God and you go for the lukewarm Christian girl that is a little bit skinnier and a little more quirker, well then what the hell? I just don’t understand how this mind process works. Don’t get me wrong, I understand the attraction part and the fact that men think about sex every 2.5 seconds of the day, but geez guys..look beyond boobs and butt and you might just find a completely awesome girl that you have been waiting for your entire life. I don’t believe there will be fireworks or a “feeling” or a calling or supernatural thing. I know it’s a thing that when you know, you just know, but my call is for boys to step up and be men and ask out the girl that no one thinks twice about. Even if it doesn’t work out at least you have given her some hope that not all so called Christian men are just like the secular boys and are just out to get some. Proverbs 31:30 says, “Charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.” So shouldn’t a man be looking for a woman who fears the Lord and earnestly seeks after Him with all her heart? Yes, looks are important, but I don’t think God is saying that is the most important thing there is and truly if you love someone’s personality, couldn’t you eventually fall in love with their beauty. Their inner, spiritual beauty?